Today my friend Mallory described being in Cairo like being in a relationship with another person, and I think she's right. You might find it fascinating in the beginning, and then not so much later on. Yet for all the frustrations, it is felt that the relationship is important and that one should make an effort to overlook the shortcomings and take full advantage of the best parts. Yet sometimes, some days, are just better or worse than others.
The other night a fellow Fulbrighter had a party to celebrate his birthday, to which I invited several other people, yet was only accompanied by the aforementioned Mallory. The location of the party was only about 2 or 3 miles down the street from her house, so it seemed convenient and neither of us really intended to stay that long. So we strolled down at about 11, since the invitation said to come anytime after 10:30.
We arrive and spent a few hours talking to other expats in Cairo, and it wasn't all that exciting, but it certainly wasn't bad. However from the building rooftop we could see that some sort of crazy event was happening about another mile from our present location, with the bright lights and REAALLLY loud music, so we decided to investigate.
I have always enjoyed 'going off the beaten path,' as it is within such times that really exciting experiences occur. After all, one can only have adventures if one creates oppurtunities for such adventures to happen. Now to walk down the street to this crazy party in the heart of one of Cairo's poor urban neighborhoods at 3 am is really not a bad thing, as strange as that might sound - in particular as I am a guy. But to walk down with Mallory, it was important to pay attention to MASSIVE wedding reception!
The people at the wedding were really excited to see two foriegners show up, and in classic Egyptian hospitality, they insisted that we meet the bride and groom, drink some whisky, eat some cake, share some smokes, dance to the music, and overall just partake in the raucous marry making. Of course we didn't submit to all their offers - like the all the hashish - but we did hang out for a bit, talking to people and soaking up the atmosphere. All of the people were shocked that we could actually speak Arabic, that we lived in Cairo, and that we weren't actually lost! It was really as much for them as it was for us, and we are totally glad to have investigated. After about 30 mintues, when the cops arrived - requesting for the volume to be cut down - we decided it was probably a really good time to leave. We said thanks, and went back where we came from.
We left the wedding, navigating a maze of intimidating streets to get back to the main route. Extra cautious of our environment. Everything was fine along the way until of course we actually reach Nubar Street, the street on which Mallory lives. Sighing with relief, I temporarily let my guard down as we began walking down the main street. As soon as I took about 2 steps in front of her, some young guy suddenly pops up from between two cars and grabs her breast! At that moment I immediately kicked the guy in the lower back, and with the rush of adreniline I hit him harder than I've ever hit anything in my life. He fell away and stumbled into a run, taking off down the street. Mallory was fine, and while I don't know how he fared from the incident, I can honestly say that my ankle has been really sore the last two days from the severity of the impact. Of course I walked her home afterward, obviously much more vigilent from the encounter, and nothing else happened along the way.
In other news...
Now that Eid is over, I am now working a lot of hours on my project with the NGO, Youth Violence Prevention Initiative. In short the YVPI works with a non-profit agency called St. Andrews, and is funded by the United Nations High Commissioner of Refugees. It is headed by my friend and fellow student, Natalie Forcier, and consists of only about 6 people, including myself. The aim of the project is ultimately to reduce violence among Sudanese street gangs living within urban Cairo through education and skills training, the reinforcment of hip hop culture, and the development of oppurtunties for sports and organized social events. My part within the project is two-fold. I am producing an hip-hop album with various gangs, while also conducting research to articulate the structural determinants of violence and marginalization among refugee youth.
Working with these guys is great, and it is definately the best part of my life right now. It takes a lot of time to build trust and relationships, to enter their social circle, but it provides an oppurtunity to really penetrate the depths of our world. In short, these guys have lived through more than any Tupac or 50 Cent could ever pretend to be. Having survived through genocide, warfare, torture, and systematic abuse, the frustrations and feelings of disempowerment leading to violence and gang creation is easy to understand.
Thus far the I have been working with one particular group, known as
the UniGunz, and have been compiling some basic tracks. The guys are
really excited about the project, as the creation of hip hop music is a
means for these alienated young men to establish 'street cred' without
fighting, robbery, or drugs. By channeling their frustrations and life
stories into music, it serves as a means for therepy and violence
reduction. Of course the working hours of 7 pm to 4 am is a little wearisome, but the benefits of the project far outway any inconveniences. As of January I intend to have compiled an album featuring tracks by all of the gangs, and maybe a single track including all of them. We are organizing a concert to debut the album in Cairo, and I intend to make it available online for download. At this time I have several tracks recorded and quite a bit of material in process. Of course as I take on more work with each successive gang, I assume that the rate of progress will become slower.
I will be working on this project over the course of 3 phases for most of my time in Cairo. There is potential that it could become a major project later on, providing financial incentive to stay in Cairo for another year or so. Of course, I'm not really sure if I want to stay here all that long, as I really want to go back to
real Africa, but I will just have to see what happens then. As for now, the project is exciting, all of the participants are really enthusiastic, and it is absolutely the greatest part of my time in Egypt.